The Quest Project Graduation

One of my favorite times is The Quest Project® graduation!  It’s a special night for me when I get to honor the work of the young men that have completed The Quest Project® 10 week program. Speak To Us! Over the years I have had many guest speakers attend to offer a story, a life experience and piece of…

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Birds of a Feather

You’ve heard that old cliché a million times.  “Birds of a feather flock together!”  I’m not certain I believe it 100% but I do believe that “who we associate ourselves with” can impact our behavior.  That applies to adults as well as children; the only difference is as an adult we make our own choices, as parents we…

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Play Ball!

Baseball season is heating up! Yes I’m an avid St. Louis Cardinals fan, GO CARDS!  I’m a hockey fan too, I know one of these years the Blues are going to win the Stanley Cup, GO BLUES! This inspired me to write about sports and how adolescent boys can get not only mentoring from a coach, but a “release” of stored/pent-up energy with…

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Happy Father’s Day

Being a father is a special honor; Happy Father’s Day to all Dad’s! Dad’s Are a Gift What a special opportunity a dad has in the life of his son.  As I was completing some of my research recently on this very subject,  I was reminded of the important role dad plays in the healthy development…

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Hip Hip Hooray!

Graduation is a major milestone for your son.  Congratulations!  Now what?  Welcome To Adulthood – After Graduation This is a very exciting time for most families.  I congratulate you if you are honoring a grad in your home.  It’s a time to honor the achievement and begin to plan the next steps if you haven’t already…

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It CAN Happen To You

I read a very disturbing story recently, about teens addicted to and dying from heroin.  Here’s what made it even more disturbing:  It is happening right in my own backyard.  The community in which I live is becoming overwhelmed with heroin addiction.  It is pervasive, from schools to homes to the streets and parks. You can be assured, if…

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Mad, Sad, Glad and Afraid

These are my BIG FOUR!  Regardless if you’re young, old, male or female these basic four emotions – mad, sad, glad, and afraid – are appropriate for you.  Processing your feelings is healthy and I highly recommend that.  Here’s why. Feeling Angry Feeling angry or “mad?”  Oh no!  This is the feeling that scares everyone.  I’m always amazed…

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The Best Mom

I shared a story not long ago titled The Best Dad; it was based on one of the eight case studies in my soon to be released book “Saving Our Sons” A Parent’s Guide to Preparing Boys for Success.  It’s appropriate to share another one of those case studies today about a Mom that never gave up…

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SOS – Part Two

So back to the documentary I referred to last week.  The Mask You Live In , has some great examples of how bad it is for troubled boys, but no concrete examples of what is good, or going beyond talking and giving examples of what is working.

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SOS – Part One

Last week I was honored to be asked by Raintree School to be a panelist after the screening of The Mask You Live In. If you haven’t heard of or seen the documentary it’s worth watching.  It is based on Boys Are in Trouble. Nothing new right, you’ve been hearing me and everyone else say…

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