What Teachers See That Parents Miss

The Classroom Window Into Your Son’s Wound The email always starts the same way. “We’re concerned about your son’s behavior.” And the parent’s reaction is almost always the same: defensiveness, confusion, or dread. Because the boy they see at home—even the difficult version—doesn’t seem like the boy the teacher is describing. Or worse: the boy…

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Happy Holidays!

  On behalf of The Quest Project® May the holiday season fill your home with joy, your heart with love, and your life with laughter. We wish you and your family peace throughout 2022 and beyond. Dr. Clay  

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Proud Veteran-USAF

At 18 years of age, just out of high school, me and my buddy Jay enlisted in the United States Air Force.  It was an easy decision for me; I was lost with no direction in my life.  Jay and I had a lot of adventures together, and this would prove to be the biggest and…

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Cleaning Up Unfinished Business!

Parents this one’s for you!  This blog is dedicated to those of us who need to “clean up” that unfinished business that keeps us from being the best mother, father, husband, wife, friend, brother, or sister we can be!

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Introducing-Adult Quest!

This past year has been a doozy!  It has touched each one of us; some positive lessons learned and some, not so much. Adults had to completely upend their life and their family’s life.  Some grew closer and some did not.

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Parenting Boys? This is Must Read!

This is an extremely crucial time for our adolescent boys.  Let me repeat, “our boys are in trouble!” As parents, it’s time to be very careful and diligent; refuse to allow your sons to be labeled.

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Founder of The Quest Project®-Dr. Clay

Choosing a counselor and/or a program for your son is an important step.   Both parent and son need to establish a connection with the therapist.  It is essential to the work; so, take your time and be confident in your selection process.

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Seasons Greetings from The Quest Project®

Season’s Greetings and Happy Holidays!  The Quest Project® is and always has been a labor of love, this year was filled with unexpected challenges and obstacles.  Combined with your continued dedication and support, and my mission “to create healthy lifestyles by teaching, facilitating, research, writing and example we are helping our boys grow into healthy,…

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Proud Patriot!

I am a proud Patriot of this country.  An important part of my story that brings me to where I am today, and why I do the work I do to help boys is a result of my time in the United States Air Force. It Starts Like This Enlisting in the United States Air…

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