Play Ball!

Baseball season is heating up! Yes I’m an avid St. Louis Cardinals fan, GO CARDS!  I’m a hockey fan too, I know one of these years the Blues are going to win the Stanley Cup, GO BLUES! This inspired me to write about sports and how adolescent boys can get not only mentoring from a coach, but a “release” of stored/pent-up energy with…

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Hip Hip Hooray!

Graduation is a major milestone for your son.  Congratulations!  Now what?  Welcome To Adulthood – After Graduation This is a very exciting time for most families.  I congratulate you if you are honoring a grad in your home.  It’s a time to honor the achievement and begin to plan the next steps if you haven’t already…

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It CAN Happen To You

I read a very disturbing story recently, about teens addicted to and dying from heroin.  Here’s what made it even more disturbing:  It is happening right in my own backyard.  The community in which I live is becoming overwhelmed with heroin addiction.  It is pervasive, from schools to homes to the streets and parks. You can be assured, if…

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The Best Mom

I shared a story not long ago titled The Best Dad; it was based on one of the eight case studies in my soon to be released book “Saving Our Sons” A Parent’s Guide to Preparing Boys for Success.  It’s appropriate to share another one of those case studies today about a Mom that never gave up…

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SOS – Part One

Last week I was honored to be asked by Raintree School to be a panelist after the screening of The Mask You Live In. If you haven’t heard of or seen the documentary it’s worth watching.  It is based on Boys Are in Trouble. Nothing new right, you’ve been hearing me and everyone else say…

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Boys Are In Trouble

One of the first blogs I wrote was Our Boys Are in Trouble and here I am reminding you again, why you ask?  Because it’s not getting any better; as a society we’re failing our boys.

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Spring Time Renewal

Spring is one of my favorite seasons.  The days get longer and the sun shines brighter, it feels like a time of renewal.  I tend to feel more like setting expectations for myself in the Spring.  Resolutions Are For Everyday I have never been one to do New Years resolutions; I don’t believe you “resolve” to…

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Remember Sandy Hook?

Remember Sandy Hook? Why now you ask do I bring up Sandy Hook?  Well as many of you know I am coming to the end of my PhD studies; as a matter of fact I’m finishing my last two courses as I write this.  A recent assignment was to discuss the horrible events that took place…

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When Is Abandonment Good?

The issue of abandonment is high with troubled teenage boys. Naturally, when I come across a title on an article that reads “What It Really Means When a Father Abandons His Children,” I’m going to read it! Gone Husband – Abandonment This Mom was talking about how her husband of eight years said he was…

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The Quest Project – An Overview

I’ve talked a lot about The Quest Project®, how it got its start, and some of the issues adolescent boys are dealing with when they come to me.  I thought it would be a good idea to give you an overview of the program itself. This Is How It Begins When a parent reaches out for my help, we start by…

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